“I love you” in German and other romantic phrases

It’s no secret: Unlike French, German is not necessarily considered the most romantic language. This doesn’t mean, however, that you cannot express your feelings and emotions in German or tell your loved ones how much they mean to you. Quite the opposite, actually, as there are many ways to say “I love you” in German. We will take a closer look at how you can express yourself, which German poems about love inspire love-birds, and which German love sayings you should know about.

Whether it’s for a first date or an anniversary, you always want to be able to express yourself in a clear manner in order not to confuse anyone. With beautiful German words, you can show your romantic side, flirt, and make new acquaintances as well as maintain existing ones. Are you dating a German speaker, or do you have your eye on someone you would like to impress? Take the following phrases to heart and memorize them well to leave a great impression.

German love phrases

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Express your love

To say “I love you” in German is actually a big deal. It is not common to tell your friends that you love them; you rather say you like them a lot. Love is reserved for your partner and family, so be sure of who you would want to address with this magic word. After all, you wouldn’t want to tell your colleague that you are in love with them, when you were only being polite and meant you liked them. That could cause quite the confusion!

I love youIch liebe dich. You would say this to your partner or close family members, less to friends.

I like youIch mag dich. This is the right expression to tell friends and acquaintances how much they mean to you.

I like you a lotIch habe dich (sehr) gern. You would say this when you want to make it clear that you like someone very much.

I am in love with youIch bin in dich verliebt. Similar to Ich liebe dich, you would say this to your partner or someone you would like to date and be serious about.

You drive me crazyDu machst mich verrückt. Here you need to be careful! While this expression can be seen as quite endearing in English, it has a rather negative association in German. It is more used to express annoyance at someone, but in the right context can be a loving expression.

I am crazy about youIch bin verrückt nach dir. Saying this is more appreciated in the context of showing affection than to say “Du machst mich verrückt.

I love you with all my heartIch liebe dich von ganzem Herzen. This can be seen as an extended form of “I love you.”

I miss youIch vermisse dich/ Du fehlst mir. The latter of this love saying is a passive expression which would be loosely translated to “You are missing from me.” Both options are very common in German.

Kisses - Kuss/Küsschen

One important thing to note is that you usually address people you are close to in an informal way (singular and not plural). Therefore, you won’t say, for example, “Ich vermisse Sie” and instead rather opt for “Ich vermisse dich.

German poetry

German Romanticism from the end of the 18th century to the mid-19th century brought along some world-renowned poets. Of course, not every work deals with love, but it goes to show that German can be a very romantic language. Some authors you should be aware of from the romanticism period are E. T. A. Hoffmann and Heinrich von Kleist.

The Storm and Stress period pre-dating Romanticism has more passion to offer, which is expressed in the literature of the time between 1765 and 1785. Noteworthy writers and poets that influenced this genre are Johann Wolfgang von Goethe, Friedrich Schiller, and Friedrich Leopold Graf zu Stolberg.

Want to impress your crush by reciting a famous poem? Perhaps this short poem by famous writer Heinrich Heine can help you along:

Im wunderschönen Monat Mai,

Als alle Knospen sprangen,

Da ist in meinem Herzen

Die Liebe aufgegangen.

Im wunderschönen Monat Mai,

Als alle Vögel sangen,

Da hab’ ich ihr gestanden

Mein Sehnen und Verlangen.

Translation:

In the beautiful month of May,

When all the buds burst

There in my heart

Love has risen.

In the beautiful month of May,

When all the birds sang

I confessed to her

My yearning and desire.

German love sayings

Es muss von Herzen kommen, was auf Herzen wirken soll.

– Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (English: It has to come from the heart what should work on the heart)

Das ist das Größte, was dem Menschen gegeben ist, dass es in seiner Macht steht, grenzenlos zu lieben.

– Theodor Storm (English: That is the greatest thing that man is given, that he has the power to love without limits)

Die Liebe geht manchmal seltsame Wege, aber meistens die richtigen.

– Wolf Dietrich (English: Love sometimes takes strange paths, but mostly the right ones)

Glücklich allein ist die Seele, die liebt.

– Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (English: Happy alone is the soul that loves)

Common German phrases for love

Some sayings are used in English and German alike in their respective translations. In those cases, you don’t need to familiarize yourself with too many unknown expressions, as you can rely on what you know already and simply translate it. You should add the following German love phrases to your vocabulary:

EnglishGerman
to have a crush on someoneIn jemanden verknallt sein
to appreciate someonejemanden wertschätzen
best wishes / kind regardsLiebe Grüße
to have butterflies in the stomachSchmetterlinge im Bauch haben
declaration of loveeine Liebeserklärung
to flirt with someonemit jemandem flirten
to hit on someonejemanden anmachen
to fall in lovesich verlieben
asking someone outjemanden nach einem Date fragen
love at first sightLiebe auf den ersten Blick
going out together / datingmiteinander ausgehen
being in love head over heelsHals über Kopf verliebt sein

With these phrases, you must remember to use the right case and pronoun, especially when speaking of yourself. Let’s say you want to tell someone you have a crush on them. You would say: “Ich bin in dich verknallt.” If you’d like to ask a German speaker for a date, say, “Ich möchte mit dir ausgehen” or ask, “Möchtest du mit mir ausgehen?”

Love Phrases in German

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Additional German vocabulary with regard to love and relationships

EnglishGerman
to hugumarmen
to kissküssen
to dateausgehen
to be in loveverliebt sein
to propose (marriage)einen Heiratsantrag machen
Will you marry me?Willst du mich heiraten?
fiancée/fiancéVerlobte (female)/ Verlobter (male)
to marryheiraten
brideBraut
groomBräutigam
bridesmaidBrautjungfer
wifeEhefrau
husbandEhemann
anniversaryJahrestag

Online chatting

When it comes to communicating online, you can mostly rely on English. Abbreviations are commonly understood among younger German speakers, such as ilu for “I love you” or xoxo for “hugs and kisses.”

There are some abbreviations for love and affection in German, however, which are as follows:

ild - Ich liebe dich (I love you)

lg - Liebe Grüße (Kind regards, informal)

hdl - Hab’ dich lieb (Like you / Love you)

hdgdl - Hab’ dich ganz doll lieb (Like you a lot / love you a lot)

A kiss on the cheek?

For native German speakers, it is quite uncommon to greet anybody with a kiss or two on the cheek. A hug is more prevalent, and a handshake the standard greeting if you are not too familiar or friendly with each other.

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